Comments on: Why Do People Get So Uptight About Wedding Rings?

By: Business Logo Design

Business Logo Design — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 22:56:57 +0000

Because of many reasons.
1- Who is he hiding the fact that he’s married from?
2- Centuries of people used it as a symbol of eternity in a marriage.
3- Why wouldn’t you want your man to show everyone his eternal dedication to your marriage.
4- Out of respect to your marriage.
I know it’s not important for everyone else to see it, but it is a real good feeling to know that your man wants the world to know that he is married to you.
I’m not saying that he will do this to you, but my EX HUSBAND did the same thing saying that he didn’t believe in them either… I found out that he was cheating on me. He was also more concerned that his friends would clown him.

By: Greg

Greg — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:02:28 +0000

It is an outward (public) notice that you are “taken”. Only low class people hit on married people.
I do not wear mine or any jewelry around the house, but always wear my ring in public. It is also a show of loyalty to your spouse.
I do not and have never bought the words of people who come up with excuses not to wear their rings. Those people demonstrate a subconscious feeling that either they are not totally “off the market”.

By: AnneeMoo

AnneeMoo — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 12:27:44 +0000

because they symbolize the unity between you 2. why people get uptight…. i suppose personal reasons. my huband and i take our rings off when we shower and do dishes as long as we don’t forget to put them back on. sometimes if he forgets, i just pick it up and go to him and ask him, “are you forgetting something?” or “did you lose something?” i don’t ever get mad. people that get mad are just being overly prtective about their spouse and probably feel that if one of them goes out without it they will be approached by single people and then that’s just plain jealousy and they need to gt over it.

By: momofmod

momofmod — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 09:29:47 +0000

You’re right, the ring is just a piece of metal and some diamonds. But symbolically, the wedding ring is so much more. That’s probably why people got upset. I rarely take mine off and feel like something is wrong when I do. I do know that the ring really has nothing to with our love. It’s the symbolism of the love that makes it more than metal and diamonds.

By: wherenai

wherenai — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 04:22:28 +0000

Hmm…I think that if both you and your hubby have a mutual respect for your relationship, and this is all in good fun..WHAT IS THE HARM???? I’m pretty sure that you would know him well enough to be able to determine if he will freak and laugh later, or be totally crushed by your actions… If your not able to have fun and joke around in your relationship, then what is there, asides from the obvious? My hubby is a hard worker, never misses work, his average work day consists of 12 to 16 hours a day, 6 days a week.. On those rare occasions when he does come home early, or actually has more than a day off… It startles me and I ask…”You have the day off today?” he responds “No, I got fired!” I start to freak out, and then he laughs and says,”I get you all the time.” For some people that may not be funny..but then we think it is!

By: Queen Queso

Queen Queso — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:14:47 +0000

To most people, a wedding ring is the ultimate symbol of their love and they can’t understand that some peopel don’t share that view. While we will include the ring ceremony in our wedding, I too have been to some that didn’t, and I know people who, instead of an engagement ring, received a new car or a downpayment on a house.
If you haven’t thought of a way to get back at him, some things that work with my borfriend are hiding the remote or his lighter. Makes him irritated, but not too much.

By: tinasilv

tinasilv — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 21:33:30 +0000

The ring symbolises trust. If you wear it everyday it gives you a natural feeling of long lasting relationship

By: Rachel

Rachel — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 14:35:29 +0000

Because with the rings comes sentimental value and that supercedes them being “hunks of metal with diamonds.” The rings symbolize the very essence of your commitment to each other – it is part of the ceremony at the church, and every time you look at them, you know you are paired with someone very special for the rest of your lives. The rings, like everything else regarding marriage, should be treasured and taken care of. It all comes down to respect.

By: http://www.rocketspanishorbust.com

http://www.rocketspanishorbust.com — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 12:20:19 +0000

A ring is not what makes a marriage. Neither my husband nor I wear a ring. We know who we’re married to. A piece of jewelry does not make a marriage.

By: Pesty Wadoo

Pesty Wadoo — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:13:10 +0000

I don’t understand the people who get married, have NO money and splurge on the ring and then take years to pay it off-or split up before it is paid off.I take mine off too, I clean for a living. I have thought about my husband hiding it from me when I do leave it home!!He hasn’t yet though.My ring is a $165.00 white gold sparkling cut band. I don’t put too much stock in rings.