When To Stop On Spending On Wedding Rings?
Written by Admin on November 30, 2009My betrothed and i went labour for start rings. I told him i desirable a tiffany & co. one. The member i picked conceive was around 10,000 dollars. What i got was whole more. I looked at member around 38,000 dollars and was admiring it. I said no though that i didnt ever responsibility the super and the best substantially he suprised me with the pricey one. Is that accomplishment likewise far. I mean i ass it but its noise bounteous i dont participate if i should advert it abstracted or primed the bounteous one. I wager pure because he tells me i clear a assemblage and then goes conceive and buys this.
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2:46 pm on November 30th, 2009
If he can afford, it, don’t feel guilty about it. Be happy that he loves you enough that he surprised you with something that *he* liked better and thought you would like better. : )
6:10 pm on November 30th, 2009
Can the both of you afford it? I am assuming yes. If he WANTS to give you something you really love then say thank you and accept it but will he throw it up in your face later or hold it over you? The intent behind the giving is just as important. If he wants you to have it and truly does it out of the kindness of his heart and will not resent it later than just accept it. If you do spend a lot are you spending cash or credit? Are you starting your married life in debt or are you both financailly stable? Money is the number one reason couples divorce and I truly hope that it never happens to you. The ring is one issue but it sounds like he might have issues with your spending. Talk it out and reach a compromise before marriage, it will make you both stronger as a couple.
8:06 pm on November 30th, 2009
If you and he can afford it, then I don’t see a problem with it. If on the other hand you’re saving for a house or something, that could put a more than significant dent in the down payment. So it all depends on your situation. He probably just wants to show you with the ring that it’s not about needing the biggest or the best – it’s about him feeling like you deserve the best. So unless it puts you in a really bad position financially I think you should be happy with your ring and don’t feel bad about it – just feel good about how much he loves you!
1:09 am on December 1st, 2009
hey he got it for you that was his choice so enjoy!
6:52 am on December 1st, 2009
If you tell him you don’t want it then he will be hurt. If it is something that you guys really can’t afford then you need to sit down and talk to him about it. Tell him that you absolutely love it and that is really beautiful but that you feel it is too much for you. Tell him you don’t need the best or the most expensive. Love counts way more then how much money is spent on the ring itself!
Good luck!
12:19 pm on December 1st, 2009
he loves you and wants you to have the best. however, if you can go with something smaller or not as nice and be just as happy then do it. use the extra money and buy a house or save for retirement or go on a nice honeymoon.