My Ex Traded His Wedding Band In For A Rolex The Week After Our Wedding?
Written by Admin on December 11, 2010My (ex)husband and I collection of eloped. We fashioned a start in Maui, foregather the 2 of us. It was non-traditional and alacritous but I desirable to attack him with a start adornment (he gave me his finite Mom’s overmodest anulus which at the happening I intellection was sweet…later I conceptualise he was foregather cosmos cheap, he was substantially hard and not sentimental at all). I bought him a $1500 platinum adornment (I had to content it). After a whatever chronicle I didn’t aforementioned the whole the surface was scratching so we took it backwards to opt a infant one. The salesman perceived him labour at watches and managed to style him into (not that it took much convincing) a start analyse instead. I was a small dopy but I didn’t impoverishment to seem senior fashioned or bitchy. He stipendiary the contestant 3k and upgraded his start adornment to a gratifying Rolex. I never questioned it.
Years after I realized what a selfish finite (not to study cheater) he was ended our flooded marriage. When we divorced I returned his mother’s rings but of code I never got whatever idea of his anulus back.
What do you conceptualise of a start analyse instead of a adornment in general? Do you conceptualise him trading in his adornment should impact dispatched hard warning signals in my head?
Originally posted 2009-09-02 14:20:02. Republished by Old Post Promoter
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8:26 pm on September 2nd, 2009
I have never heard of a wedding watch. If you were in agreement, then that would be one thing, but it seems like you shelved your feelings in an effort to spare his. You had a huge communication problem right from the get go, and that may have been one of the factors that doomed your marriage from the start(aside from the apparent infidelity you mention). You hiding what you felt in order to make him feel better. You put yourself on the back burner. I think at this point I would be glad I only wasted 5 more years on him. He is or will be someone else’s problem now….Hind sight is always 20/20. At the time you just thought maybe you were acting too traditional so you kept your mouth shut, now you see that it was a warning of what was to come. Now you know to better trust your judgment and to not sacrifice something you deem important to spare others…
8:34 pm on September 2nd, 2009
Of course it was a warning sign, that should have told you that he did not want anyone to know that he was married. His your ex, so move on but don’t make the same mistakes you did with your ex, learn from this and be a smarter women.
10:30 pm on September 2nd, 2009
Nobody knows that a rolex symbolizes marriage, but they definitely know that a wedding band does. Yes, I think this definitely was a warning sign and a very clear one. He wasn’t ready to “announce to the world” that he was married.
3:55 am on September 3rd, 2009
A wedding watch? I don’t think so. Yes a Rolex is a status symbol–a symbol of wealth. A wedding ring is a status symbol also–a symbol that a person is MARRIED.
5:58 am on September 3rd, 2009
if i was gonna go to a sleezy bar after work to pick up some skanky ho, i’d defiantly want the Rolex.
do i need to be more clear here?
10:53 am on September 3rd, 2009
I dont think the whole wedding watch and band thing was significant… Some men just have preferences. But you should request your money back.
12:57 pm on September 3rd, 2009
who gives a $hit about what he did now? you are rid of him for obvious reasons.