Mis-matched Wedding Bands?
Written by Admin on September 8, 2009My swain and I impact talked most wedlock pretty much since punctuation 1. He is 8 eld grownup than I am and is insistant on having a yellow-gold start band. I agreement with him that it looks more “traditional” than a albescent gold/platinum start band. However, I never represented myself with a chestnut antimonial occurrence ring/wedding band. I would noise aforementioned it if our start bands matched though. Any suggestions/advice?
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5:44 am on September 8th, 2009
You should each consider and try on some rings of the other person’s choice. If you happen to find a yellow gold engagement ring you like, it may change your mind, or he might find a white gold band that he likes.
If you both go shopping with open minds and are willing to compromise, you should be able to agree on matching bands.
Best of luck to you both and congrats!
7:39 am on September 8th, 2009
well if you want a white gold ring why not go with a ring that is two toned.they do make rings like that.half white gold and the other half gold.But it doesn’t really matter if you have matching wedding bands or not.what matters the most is that you love one another.Not if you’re wedding bands match or not.good luck
12:16 pm on September 8th, 2009
Well, uh, just tell him that you thought it would be cool to have a gold wedding band, but it wouldn’t seem right.
4:29 pm on September 8th, 2009
How about you wait until he asks you, and graciously accept any ring which he might offer?
4:41 pm on September 8th, 2009
thunder_kok says don’t get married, you can’t even agree on rings
9:17 pm on September 8th, 2009
agree on something or deal
9:20 pm on September 8th, 2009
He picks what he wants you to wear and you pick what you want him to wear traditionally but then actually you persuade him into what you really want and what he really wants too. Not kidding if he loves you then he would not want you to wear something you thought was really ugly now would he. Tell him so, from me, just kidding.
11:24 pm on September 8th, 2009
I’ve worked in the jewelry business for 6 years..( certified gemologist ) and of all the thousands of people I’ve helped with there jewelry or sold it to..maybe 10 % of there rings matched…it’s not that important, especially once your married, you wont even notice.. but if you really really want them to match, go with something 2 toned..
3:12 am on September 9th, 2009
My husband and I have mis-matched wedding bands. His is a titanium band and mine is the yellow-gold band. I don’t think that it really matters if they match.
3:17 am on September 9th, 2009
Talk to him let him know how you feel about the situations. communication is the key to everything.
4:58 am on September 9th, 2009
I think that white gold/platinum wedding bands are beautiful. And they are much more in style today than the yellow gold ones.
Your bands should match (similar design) and so you will need to compromise. About a 2-tone band of yellow and white gold?
6:08 am on September 9th, 2009
My guess is that he specifically associates white gold with a bad past relationship and just hasn’t talked to you about it.
Heterosexual men generally don’t have strong tastes in such things.
Unless you have some very strong reason otherwise, I suggest you go ahead and picture yourself with the yellow gold.
12:06 pm on September 9th, 2009
My husband and I have mismatched bands. He looked awful in the white gold/platinum bands and I looked terrible in the yellow gold bands, so we each got what we looked best with and it’s no big deal. We even tried two toned bands as a comprimise, but eventually I just decided it was better to be mismatched.
See if you can find the same design in yellow and white gold. It would be almost like being matched completely, and then you could each get the color you want.
1:43 pm on September 9th, 2009
you don’t need the same type of wedding bands, if you don’t like it and he does, then get a different one
6:23 pm on September 9th, 2009
They don’t have to match……..But it would be good to agree………That is what marriage is all about……..
9:09 pm on September 9th, 2009
It is okay to have wedding bands that do not match, you both could go white gold
12:10 am on September 10th, 2009
Compromise and get the white and yellow gold bands that would satisfy both of your taste.
6:01 am on September 10th, 2009
my husband and I have mismatched bands didn’t doesn’t matter we didn’t take close ups of the rings when we got married is all
9:05 am on September 10th, 2009
what if you both got bands that were different colors but engraved/detailed with the same pattern. talk to a jeweler. most bands have designs and diamonds etc…see if you can’t get the same design in different colors. that way you get what you want and he gets what he wants but they look like they came as a set.
just remember…you both will wear your rings everyday. you don’t want either of you looking at them and resent the other for making you choose something you really didn’t want. not a good way to start a marriage.