How Do You Feel About Married Men/women Who Don’t Wear Wedding Bands/rings?
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Originally posted 2009-09-25 04:20:09. Republished by Old Post Promoter
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5:19 am on September 25th, 2009
I think it matters. My ring means a lot to me. It matters to my husband too but he works in a field where he cannot wear his ring. So he usually only has it on on weekends on during the evenings. But I think it’s a symbol or our marriage, of what we vowed to one another. I feel naked without it….
But that’s just us. As long as we both feel it’s sacred and important, that’s all that matters!!
7:47 am on September 25th, 2009
Well I am married and to be honest with you my husband doesn’t wear his all the time like at work and stuff…where he works his finger could get caught by the ring….when we go places and things he then wears it….so it really doesn’t matter to me! I trust him with all my heart!
11:38 am on September 25th, 2009
It’s because they want to keep their options open. Just in case. I was married to a guy who said the ring made his finger itchy. He had a lot of allergies, so I believed him. Divorced him when I found out he cheated on me several times. Dated a guy, found out he was married, he didn’t where his wedding ring either. I never saw it. If I ever get married again, the guy better wear the ring or he can get to steppin’.
2:25 pm on September 25th, 2009
my sister and bro in law have been married 15 years and sometimes she wears hers but he doesn’t wear one but he doesn’t wear any jewelery
they work together and have 5 kids 
and they let everyone know they are married because they always talk about each other and their kids 
2:46 pm on September 25th, 2009
It’s up to the couple, but I’d say if they began the marriage with the rings, then it’s a symbol of their union and should always stay on. Of course, there are exceptions for taking it off. Mechanics aren’t supposed to wear jewelry, neither are electricians. I’d say other than your job, or some good reason, it should stay on.
7:14 pm on September 25th, 2009
Personally, I love the rings that signify the unity of two people. That does not mean that I would judge others for not having the same feelings as I do. Marriage means different things to other couples and what they do to signify their unity is entirely up to them.
So no, don’t break a tie with someone who does not share the same point of view as you do.
Differences in opinion is what makes this world an interesting place…can you imagine if every single person had the same exact viewpoint….boringggggggggggg
Cheers!
12:32 am on September 26th, 2009
A ring is not going to stop someone from cheating. What a couple decides to do is their business. This includes whether or not they believe rings are necessary.
1:33 am on September 26th, 2009
It’s not the ring one should be concerned about but rather what is in each person’s heart.
8:12 am on September 26th, 2009
It depends on the reason. My husband doesn’t wear his to work because he can’t for safety reasons (he’s an engineer working on machines all day), so sometimes on the weekends he forgets to wear it. People have a lot of different reasons for not wearing them, it just matters on the reason. Also, how a married person acts when they’re not wearing the ring matters as well (are they flirting or pretending to be single?, that would matter)
2:26 pm on September 26th, 2009
I think it’s shady.
People should be proud of their husband/wife….not hide the fact that they have one.
*Edit* I didn’t take into consideration the “safety” or “work issues”….so unless it falls into one of those categories, then it’s shady!
8:41 pm on September 26th, 2009
we don’t have wedding bands…..but our love is just as deep as if we had them…..
9:42 pm on September 26th, 2009
My ring is only put on for nice occasion. My ring has too much on it and I love it too much to have it ruined. Ring means nothing as far as taken or not. I have worn my wedding ring and still got hit on. I have seen guys who wear their rings and still hit on women. So the ring means nothing!
2:24 am on September 27th, 2009
Some wear it, some don’t…It was good if they do wear it..otherwise….their choice.
4:31 am on September 27th, 2009
The reality is that it does not matter,,,,,,,,,nor to the one cheating and for the one cheating with, it is actually more exiting and challenging that doing it with a single man, A ring is not nor it will ever be a STOP sign or an obstacle. Sorry.lol
8:39 am on September 27th, 2009
The biggest reason for not wearing them is for Safety. Would hate to loose a finger over a symbol. Some jabs you are not allowed to wear one at work. Heck I take mine off to do the dishes, saw my moms go down the garbage disposal.
Also, some people do not believe in them.
11:37 am on September 27th, 2009
Well I wear my weddin gband all the time…however my husband can not wear his wedding band bc of work. He is not allowed to wear any jewelry (safety precaution)at all. (He is a Lineman) Just bc he doesn’t wear his wedding band does not mean he doesn’t loves me or is any less devoted to me and our marriage. So I guess my answer to your question is NO.
3:40 pm on September 27th, 2009
Depends on the reason. I know a few couples who do not wear them because they don’t think they need them to feel married. Most of these couples are professors and in fact, many academics I know do not feel the need to wear them. If they are taking them off to get other people, then that is bad. But if it is an understanding between the couple and they are not flirting outside the marriage, then I would say it is okay.
5:16 pm on September 27th, 2009
all the ribng does is tell others you are maried but my husband and I don’t wear one for other reasons and I tell everyone that I am married and HAPPY
6:22 pm on September 27th, 2009
To me it matters to show that you have found that special someone to spend the rest of your life with. A ring symbolizes a circle of trust that has been vowed not to be broken.
11:40 pm on September 27th, 2009
I feel that what other people choose to do in their own marriages is not my business (or yours, either). If it bother’s a person’s spouse, then yes, they should wear a ring. If the spouse doesn’t care, then I see no reason for someone to wear a wedding ring just to make YOU happy.
4:38 am on September 28th, 2009
A lot of men can’t wear a wedding ring at work due to safety issues. When you don’t wear it for the majority of your working hours, it can be tough to get into the habit of wearing it.
You and your friend are going to have to agree to disagree.
For some people it matters (you) and for some people it doesn’t (your friend). You are both right.
6:07 am on September 28th, 2009
I agree with your friend. It’s a choice that should be left up to the couple.
10:09 am on September 28th, 2009
it doesn’t matter, in their heart they are taken and don’t need to show anyone
many men who work around machinery cannot wear wedding bands, you lose fingers that way, but they are just as married
1:44 pm on September 28th, 2009
It does not matter. It did not become a christian custom until the year 860. It was originated by the Egyptian (a pagan nation) http://www.weddingringorigins.com/
7:09 pm on September 28th, 2009
I am a practical woman and do practical things. When I have my ring on, either I can
A. get it caught on things (it sticks up)
B. risk damaging it
C.risk losing it.
But Hell sometimes I just don’t want to wear it. Sometimes my fingers are a little swollen making the ring too tight and it’s uncomfortable–trust me, I’m VERY happily married (despite the IN LAWS). The ring isn’t what makes my marriage work, so is it really a necessity?
11:52 pm on September 28th, 2009
To be honest, I never take my ring off unless I am going swimming in an ocean/lake or going muddin’ on the 4 wheelers. My husband never wears his ring which quite frankly hurts my feelings. It is a symbol of our marriage. I know without a doubt that he not cheating on me but it still hurts. He does not wear it because he says it bothers him. He has thin fingers which I can understand that he feels it there between his fingers. It bothers him to wear ring, necklaces, watches and used to bother him to wear his seatbelt too, until recently when he realized how important it is. I just wish he’d wear it occasionally.
It DOES matter!
12:24 am on September 29th, 2009
I think that both man and woman should wear their rings as long as there’s no reason they cannot..it’s a good way to show others you are “taken” without having to say a word
2:02 am on September 29th, 2009
I always wear my ring and band.
My husband however is in law enforcement and doesnt want any of the bad guys to know that he has a wife and a life because usually thats where they go to get revenge… In addition to the possiblity of it getting caught on a fence or scuffed up on the ground I’d rather him keep it at home and wear it any other time he can. If the reason they dont wear it is work related It’s probably a good reason as long as they are married in their heart.
5:07 am on September 29th, 2009
Personally, I don’t think it matters. A person is going to cheat regardless of the fact that they have a ring on. I know plenty of couples who DON’T wear their wedding rings, but are HAPPILY married. It’s a couple’s choice.
10:36 am on September 29th, 2009
well, my husband lost his ring @ work most likely a couple of weeks ago =(… we can’t afford another at this time… =(…
on the other hand, I know a lady who is cheating on her husband, and still wears her ring! such a hypocrite…!
sigh…
1:27 pm on September 29th, 2009
I think this is something that needs to be clearly discussed at the onset of a relationship. Typically, those who are the happiest in their marriage have no problems wearing a ring.